Wine pairing at home: a concise guide for a private dinner

Six principles our head sommelier follows when arranging a six-course wine pairing for guests in their own home. None of them hinge on price.

Begin with the room, not the menu

The setting sets the pace. A glass-walled terrace on a summer evening will not carry the same wines as a candlelit dining room in February. Decide which of those you are hosting before you draft a list.

Two whites are usually enough

One bright, one rich. A Chablis and a barrel-aged Chardonnay; a Riesling and a White Burgundy; a Verdicchio and a richer Italian. The two-white approach carries a dinner from amuse-bouche to fish course without ever feeling repetitive.

Bring one bottle more than you expect

Servings always stretch a little longer than the math suggests. We carry one spare bottle of every wine to a private dinner, every time, without exception, and the guest never sees it unless we need it.

Decant the reds you are unsure about

A reluctant young red transforms with thirty minutes of air. A delicate older red collapses with twenty. When uncertain, decant the young one and leave the old one alone.

Pour smaller than you think

A 100 ml pour is generous for a paired dinner. Pour smaller, top up more often, and your guests will remember the wines they actually drank.

Finish sweeter than you began

Even if your dessert is bitter chocolate or a cheese board, the final glass should draw the evening towards sweet. A late-harvest Riesling, a Sauternes, a Tokaji — the choice matters less than the direction.

Prepared by the editorial team at Sunsetmarinagetaway. Last updated 2026-07-20.